Showing posts with label lessons learned. Show all posts
Showing posts with label lessons learned. Show all posts

Can you be trusted?

>> 12 September 2010

When you meet and like someone, do you ever think about her past? Do you ever wonder if she thinks about yours? I've met some wonderful, outgoing, loving ladies and was shocked to learn that some had a heart-breakingly horrible childhood, or an abusive adult relationship, or a battle with drugs, or any number of surprising experiences.

For several reasons, I share my past with very few. (No, I never did drugs; never even touched marijuana, though I grew up in the 60's and had many friends who laughed at me for being so 'uncool'.) So, why the big 'secret'? Of the VERY few people I have trusted enough to talk with about my childhood, some have been warmly sympathetic. A couple others have stopped having anything to do with me, overtly avoiding me after I offered the smallest of details.. As if I had any control over the events.

If someone trusts you enough to open up her heart to you, do you deserve that trust? Will she regret it? The strongest heart is damaged when trust is abused. An already fragile soul is deeply wounded. Many people don't realize what an honour it is to be offered the trust of a guarded heart.

If you found out a friend had 'a past', how would you react? Would you look at her differently? Would it diminish your affection for her? Would you still be her friend?

Are you trustworthy?

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My week, in a nutshell

>> 03 April 2010

In a nutshell is the appropriate description alright, lol! It all started innocently enough, checking email, deleting all the spam and scanning a few that looked interesting. And there it was, the big egg hunt at Coffeecup Software. So I figured I'd check it out and get on with my day. Well, that was Monday, early afternoon, and I'm just now coming up for air! I'm kinda mad at myownself, coz I found several eggs in the very beginning, but left them there, thinking I'd look for the golden egg. Who knew those people were so tricky?! By the time I had had enough and went back, all those eggs were claimed. I vowed that I'd claim the very next one with a prize I wanted. Six days later, I've found about 3 dozen already claimed eggs - just missed a couple by seconds - and probably at least 5-6 unclaimed that I didn't want. Can you say OCD?!

During the moments I tore myself away, I made the mistake of reading open comments under a news article. It's truly sad how malevolent people are these days. (Don't even get me started!)

I also learned that the school in which I spent 7 wonderful developing years was closed at the end of last term. It was a bombshell to the parents and staff and many people were up in arms about it. This was an A school, one of the best in the state, according to what I've read. The very same night, I read that the church I grew up in was torn down a few years back to make room for a parking lot, part of the county's plan to renovate 'downtown'. They did save the original chapel, which was named after one of my favourite cousins. The church was within a stone's throw of my grandparent's house - the town's oldest house still standing a day earlier - which had just been demolished when we visited a few years ago. Finally, I hope, it seems the Easter sunrise service that was for many, many years held on Main Street has been moved to the next town. *sigh* It was almost like my entire childhood just went up in a puff of late-night smoke. Reckon Tom Wolfe was right... you can't go home again.

Last, but not least, Firefox updated itself the other day. Ever since, one of my most frequented sites doesn't like it. The browser completely freezes up every time I go there. I'm not talking your normal, annoying, have to wait a few seconds for it to respond, I'm talking full-blown browser-death. Just sits there, 'not responding'. Oddly, the cursor still moves, but can't make anything happen. Even Ctrl-Alt-Del won't work most of the time. I even tried a system restore. I went back to a pre-update time. Unfortunately, the update stayed and FF doesn't give one the option to download a previous version. So, I've moved all my bookmarks back over to IE and am now getting used to what was, up until a few days ago, a slightly inferior experience.

And now the good news! Today, we are celebrating the death and LIFE of our risen Saviour! How awesome to know that He willingly suffered and died to pay the penalty for our crimes against God! Who among us can even begin to fathom a love like that? Thank you, JESUS!

My prayer today is that we all will stop forgetting who we are. We are royalty, made in His image, adopted into His family! If He deemed us a worthy purchase, we should honour His sacrifice by standing tall and facing each day with the assurance that whatever comes our way, He is in control and will NEVER leave us or forsake us.


Have a JESUS-filled Resurrection Day!

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Thrifty Thursday

>> 15 October 2009

Times are tough all over and we're all doing our part to fight fiscal frustration.

I NEVER shop at WD here. They have been accused - and I believe it - of taking items out of the dumpster and reshelving them. I have taken back things that had been opened - no phfff when I removed the lid - and later found the same items back on the shelf. UGH! The place is disgusting!

Admittedly, Publix is, as a rule, a bit more expensive. But with a little planning, we can save a ton. The thing I love most about Publix - well, second to its obviously superior environment - is the plethora of BOGO deals. Last week, between the BOGOs and coupons, I paid app. $66 for $111 worth of groceries! (And that was without really thoroughly scouring all the coupon sources available!) Keep your eyes peeled for coupons on those sale items. They had a BOGO offer on Old El Paso dinner kits. I had a coupon for $1 off 3 OEP items AND a coupon for a free OEP taco seasoning package. Bottom line: I got 2 dinner kits and the seasoning pack for under $2. And I later found out I could have gotten a free shopping bag with that purchase. Yep, I'm still learning.

Today's lesson: When you think you've found all the coupons you can use, go back and look again. 8-]

Have a JESUS-filled day! ^i^

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note to self...

>> 16 March 2009

Just wanna make sure I always remember this morning. Lying in bed, wishing I'd slept later, God reminded me how wonderful early morning can be. I'm surrounded by singing. White-eyed vireo, downy woodpecker, Carolina wrens, Northern parula, red-bellied woodpecker, Northern cardinal, Carolina chickadee, mourning dove... I can nap later. These songs are too beautiful to miss.

Have a JESUS-filled day! ^i^

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What I Learned This Week

>> 17 February 2009


  • Even though they're from Weight Watchers, it's not OK to eat 3 desserts in one day. 8-}
  • The best day ever can be wrecked in the blink of an eye
    See, for details, this post on my other blog. In a nutshell, it involves late night, 50 miles of nothingness, super-heavy fog, my car, and one stupid deer
  • When you finally give up looking for cheaper gas and fill your tank, you'll find it 5-10¢ cheaper 2 miles down the road. 'Nuff said.
  • The less tv I watch, the more content I am with my life and what I have.
  • It's OK to have weaknesses.

    What have you learned this week? To join in, and/or to learn what others have learned, click on over to Musings of a Housewife.


    God bless all y'all.
    Have a JESUS-filled day! ^i^

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What I Learned This Week

>> 10 February 2009


I didn't join in this one sooner, coz, at this point in life, I pretty much thought I wouldn't have much to learn. But once I made myself aware each day, it's amazing how much I ended up with. Not to say I'll ever learn anything else for the following weeks... ;}

1 - I am no longer able to move heavy furniture by myself
2 - NEVER leave a cup of water on the nightstand while you're rearranging the bedroom
3 - I hate being very cold more than I hate being very hot
4 - Old age WILL, eventually, catch up with you
5 - If you lose your balance while running through the house, a heavy grocery bag will prevent you from recovering
6 - Carpet does not make good padding when you fall
7 - If you're Christmas shopping early, be sure to find out the store's return policy
8 - If you don't feed 'the white dog' regularly, 'the black dog' WILL start muscling in

What have you learned this week? To join in, and/or to learn what others have learned, click on over to Musings of a Housewife.

God bless all y'all.
Have a JESUS-filled day! ^i^

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I love JESUS! I'm a 7th-generation Florida native, dyed-in-the-wool Southron belle. I just recently dusted off my genealogy notes and, thanks to a long-lost relative, nearly doubled the details. We started home schooling when only 'outlaws' did it and still enjoy a daily quest for knowledge. These days, the family spends a lot of time birding, butterflying, spending as much time in 'the woods' as possible while they're still here.
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